What Is Bullying
What is Bullying?
Bullying can take on many forms and can be very damaging to children both physically and emotionally. Bullying is the desire of one child to hurt, threaten, intimidate, or embarrass another child. Bullying can be more that just name calling and has even moved onto computers and cell phones. Bullying can be physical, emotional, written, verbal, and common sexual. Knowing the different ways children can bully each other will help to recognize and stop bullying.
Corporal bullying is when one child physically injures another child on purpose and with the intention of harassing, scaring, or embarrassing them. Hitting, kicking, and pushing as well as threats of physical violence are all ways that children engage in real bullying. Sometimes a child will demand money of far cry belongings as a from of bullying. Boys more commonly use this type of bullying because they are usually more aggressive than girls. Physical bullying can have grave effects on victims if sound is not stopped soon enough.
Verbal bullying is exceeding common form of bullying and girls are more prone to engage in this kind of bullying. Verbal bullying occurs when children call others names, spread rumors or criticize each other relentlessly. Even though verbal bullying does not do any firm harm, it can still traumatize children and cause them to charitable self distinction, become depressed, and loose interest in friends and activities. These effects can do a congregation of damage to a child, and even affect them in the long term.
Written bullying takes the form of abusive letters both on paper and in emails and text messages. Passing mean notes and pictures used to be the only form of written bullying but double time, because the internet makes spreading information so easy, written bullying has come easier than ever. Children will write deprecatory things about their victim online for the total world to see. They will also use chat rooms and IM's to spread rumors and make nasty comments either to other children or the victims themselves.
Emotional bullying is another form of bullying and is also more common among girls. Emotional bullying includes excluding others from a group, victimizing others and ridiculing them. Any comments or actions that are meant to hurt another person's feelings are considered emotional bullying. This type of bullying is just as serious as any other because victims eventually become damaged emotionally. Victims of emotional bullying usually blame themselves for the bullying and suffer life long effects.
Sexual bullying occurs more often in older children and includes unwelcome sexual comments, advances, and the display of sexual salient. Sexual bullying is a very serious issue and can be considered sexual harassment. Children who commit this type of bullying can face serious consequences, and even be held legally responsible.
Bullying can happen to anyone and even popular, seemingly well adjusted children can bully others. Every type of bullying is unsmiling, and should be dealt with accordingly. Understanding the unequal types of bullying can go a long way in preventing bullying and stopping it if legitimate does happen.